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Temptation comes to all of us, whether or not we succumb depends on our ability to recognize its disguise, sometimes it arrives in a form of an old flame, flickering back to life, or a new friend who could end up being so much more, or a young child who wakens feelings we didn't know we had. And so we give in to temptation all the while knowing come morning, we'll have to suffer the consequences.
　　每个人都会受到诱惑，我们是否屈服与诱惑决定于我们识破其伪装的能力。有时它们以闪回的火花形式出现；有时是一个意义深远的新朋友；有时是一个触发我们不曾有过的感觉的婴 儿。不过如果我们屈服于诱惑，那么第二天我们必须承担后果。
We've all done something in our lives us we are ashamed of, some of us have fallen for the wrong man, some have let go of the right women, there're those who have humiliated their parents and those who have failed their children. Yes, we've all made mistakes that diminish us and those we love. But there is redemption if we try to learn from those mistakes and grow.
　　我们都做过一些自己都感到惭愧的事。有些人爱错了人，有些人错过了爱；有些孩子使父母 丢脸，也有些家长让孩子失望。是的，我们都犯过错使我们爱的人离我们而去。但如果我们 试着从这些错误中吸取教训并成长，就还有挽回的机会。
When the truth is ugly, people try to keep it hidden, because they know if revealed, the damage it will do. So they conceal it within sturdy walls, or they place it behind closed doors, or they obscure it with clever disguises, but truth , no matter how ugly, always emerges, and someone we care about always ends up getting hurt, and someone else will revel in their pain, and that's the ugliest truth of all.
当真相很丑陋的时候，人们想法设法来掩盖它。因为他们知道如果被发现的话后果相当严重。所以他们用严实的墙来遮蔽它；或把真相关在紧闭的门后；或用聪明的伪装使它们变得朦胧。但不管真相多么丑陋它们总会浮现，那些我们关心的人最后还是会受到伤害，而另外一些人却为他们的痛苦而快乐，这才是最丑陋的事实。
It's a shocking moment for each of us that moment we realize we are all alone in this world. The family we take for granted could one day abandon us; the husband we trust so implicitly might betray us; the daughter we love so deeply perhaps won't return to us. And then we could end up all by ourselves.
　　对每个人来说意识到自己孤独的活在世上都是震惊无比的。我们认为理所当然的家庭会抛弃我们；我们深信无比的丈夫也可能背叛我们；我们深深爱着的女儿也许不再回到我们的身边。那时我们只能一个人孤独的走到生命的尽头。
Sweetie, we can't prevent what can't predict.Isn't there anything I could do? Yes, yes. You can enjoy this beautiful day.We get so few of them.
亲爱的，我们不能防止那些无法预知的事情。难道没有什么是我能做的吗？有的，有的。你可以尽情享受这美好的一天，我们很少有机会享受的。
Yes, it can happen so quickly. Life as we know it can change in the blink of an eye.Unlikely friendships can blossom. Important careers can be tossed aside. A long-lost hope can be rekindled.Still, we should be grateful for whatever changes life throws at us, because all too soon the day will come when there are no changes left.
是的，世事瞬息万变。转眼之间，面目全非。不可能的友谊可以开花结果，重要的事业可以放置一边，灰飞烟灭的希望可以重新点燃。不论如何，我们仍然要感激生活的改变，因为不久末日来临，就不在有任何改变了。
Power, it's the type of thing most people don't think about, until it's taken away. Whether it's the political power of the many,or a lover's influence over just one. We all want some sort of power in our lives, if only to give ourselves choices. Yes, to be without choices, to feel utterly powerless, well...it's a lot...like being alone...in the dark.
能量，多数人平日里毫不在意，直到有一天猝然消逝才会察觉。不论是大众的政治权力，还是恋人间亲亲我我的影响。人生中我们都需要某种能量，哪怕只是给我们一些选择。是的，假如连选择都没有，假如连一丝能量都没有，那么在黑暗中，蔓延开来的，就是无边无际的孤独。
Family--there is nothing more important. They're the ones who show up when we're in trouble，the ones who push us to succeed，the ones who help keep our secrets. But what of those who have no family to rely on? What happens to those poor souls...who have no loved ones to help them in their hour of need? Well...most learn to walk life's road by themselves. But a sad few of us...simply...stop trying.
世上没有比家人更重要的东西。他们在我们有困难的时候出现，驱策我们迈向成功，帮我们保守秘密。但是那些无依无靠的人怎么办？那些在迫切需要时却没有心爱的人帮助的人怎么办？其中大多数人跌跌撞撞摸索出一条生存之道。但也有像我们这样的少数人，心灰意冷的放弃……
There is much to be afraid of in this world. But what we fear has nothing to do with gruesome masks, or plastic spiders, or lifelike monsters. No, it's the thoughts in our head, that terrify us the most... What if she comes to regret her decision? What if he really is unhappy? What if the chance for love has passed forever? How do we conquer these terrifying thoughts? We start by reminding ourselves what does not kill us...just makes us stronger.
这个世界上有很多可怕的东西。但是我们所惧怕的不是恐怖的面具，或塑料蜘蛛，也不是逼真的怪兽，都不是。最让我们恐惧的是我们内心的想法。如果她对自己的决定后悔了怎么办？如果他真的觉得不幸福怎么办？如果永远错过了再爱一次的机会怎么办？我们如何克服这些可怕的想法呢？我们从提醒自己开始，那些没有打到我们的东西，会让我们更坚强。
Faith is a belief in something that cannot be proven. So we trust in the words of the only father we've ever known. We believe the promises of the woman who shares our bed. We rely on the example of dear friends who help us to be better people. Yes, we all want to believe in those we are closest to, but where there is doubt, our faith begins to vanish... and fear rushes in to take its place.
信仰是你所相信却又无法证明的东西。所以我们相信我们唯一认识的父亲的话，我们相信跟我们同床共枕的女人的誓言，我们以最好的朋友为榜样，他们能帮助我们完善自己。是的，我们都愿意相信我们亲近的人，但当疑虑出现时，我们的信仰开始消失不见……取而代之的是恐惧。
Blindness--it's an affliction that prevents people from seeing what is right in front of them...like the wives who can't detect the jealousy that consumes their husbands...the women unable to see that a rival might also be a friend...the men who stay oblivious to the guilt that lies deep within them. Yes...The world is filled with those who cannot see. The most dangerous are the ones who stay blind to the evil within their own hearts. How do we protect ourselves from these people? First, we have to open our own eyes and find them...before they find us.
盲目，是种折磨，它让人们看不到眼前的东西。就好像妻子没有发现丈夫产生的嫉妒心，就像女人意识不到对手也可能成为朋友，就好像男人忘却了内心深处的服罪感。没错，世界上到处都有盲目的人，最危险的就是那些对自己内心的邪恶视而不见的人，我们该怎么避开这些人呢？首先，我们得睁大眼睛，把他们找出来……在他们找到我们之前。
The truth is,everyone breaks the rules now and then... Never thinking for one second they might get caught. But if they do,they simply ask for forgiveness. And most of the time,they receive it. But some acts are so wicked,they demand only our condemnation. How do people avoid such a fate? Well...the trick is knowing which rules are made to be broken... and which rules... are not.
事实上，所有的人都会偶尔犯规，而且从未想过可能会被人发现，但如果他们意识到，他们会恳求他人的原谅。多数时候，他们都能如愿以偿，可是有些所作所为如此恶毒，他们理应收到谴责。人们怎样才能避免这样的命运，这样说吧，秘诀在于，要知道那些规则是可以违反的，而哪些规则则不能。
It goes by so quickly, In a flash, The life we knew is gone forever. And we're left to ask ourselves...How could he have left me? When did my beauty start to fade? Why has my friend changed? Was I the best mother I could have been? Of course, there are some people who understand how quickly time passes. That's why they're so determined to get what they want before it's too late.
时光的脚步如此匆匆，转眼间我们熟悉的生活便永远消失，我们只能扪心自问……他怎么会离开了我呢？我美丽的容颜是几时开始衰退的？我的朋友怎么会改变的呢？我有尽力去做一个最好的母亲了么？当然，有些人明白时光的流逝是多么迅速，所以他们才如此坚定地想在一切太迟前得到自己所想要的。
Desire. It's an emotion designed to lead us astray. Persuading those who arave love make foolish choices. Causing those who yearn for family, to act out in anger. Allowing those who are lonely, to be have in reckless ways. And when the pursuit of our heart's desire, becomes an obsession. The best we can hope for... Is a caring friend willing to come along, and stop us.
欲望，是诱我们误入歧途的情感。让渴望爱情的人做出愚蠢的选择。让渴望家庭的人做出愤怒的表现。让孤独的人鲁莽行事。当我们心底的欲望因欲成狂，我们能期待最好的事情就是，一个关心我们的朋友能过来，并制止我们。
Everyone wears some kind of mask, So you must look closely to find the truth that lies beneath. Some conceal anxiety about growing older. Some hide fears of financial ruin. Others cover up a love that continues to linger. And then there are those who let their masks slip. If you look into their eyes, you will see who they really are...And exactly what they are capable of.
每个人的脸上都戴着面具，所以你必须仔细观察才能看清谎言背后的真相。有些隐瞒着容颜不再的的焦虑，有些藏匿着家道没落的恐惧，还有些掩饰着渐行渐远的爱意。当那些人的面具悄悄滑落，透过他们的双眼，你便可以看穿他们的内心。
In our darkest moments ,we all needs someone who will listen.Some turn to friendly professionals.A few rely on those who are older and wiser.Other seeks out someone who knows what they're going through. But for most of us ,nothing is quite so therapeutic as a good long talk with a few old friends.
在我们最黑暗的瞬间里，我们都需要一个可以倾听的人，有些人倾向于友善的专业人士，有人更新来有智慧的长者，其他人则会寻找自己所经历一切的同路人，但是对大多数人而言，没有哪一种治疗的疗效，能比得上与一群老友促膝长谈更有效果。
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